For the woman
who is ready to return
to inner union,
and live from wholeness
Hello, i'm Abby OpelÂ
I guide women who have awakened
and are ready to become ordered.
Women who want to experience relationship with God,Â
who have done therapy, reflection, embodiment, healing work...
and still feel something remains unfinished.
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My work is rooted in the restoration of inner architecture, realignment,
so that love no longer requires effort, and devotion no longer feels heavy.
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It is slow, embodied, devotional formation
where insight becomes coherence
and union becomes lived experience.
I teach from lived healing, nervous-system awareness,
faithful devotion, and relational truth.
Not to fix you,
but to help you return to your rightful inner posture.
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The Architecture of Union is for women who are not seeking a quick fix,
but a rightful return to structure.
For those ready to stop circling the same lessons
and begin living from a restored inner center.
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This work is an invitation, not a demand.
A remembering, not a performance.
You do not need to do everything at once.
Just begin...
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Safety begins to live in your body.
You learn how to be soft without collapsing
and fierce without closing your heart.Â
You stop confusing intensity with intimacy.
You stop repeating cycles of anxiety, fantasy, and “almost” love.
You become a woman who feels deeply, stands clearly, and participates in love as an equal creator.Â
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 You learn how to hold and speak truth without collapsing or hardening.
You stop silencing your knowing to keep the peace.
You stop mistaking false harmony for intimacy.
You develop the capacity to build union on truth, not illusion.
This work teaches you how to:
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Recognize manipulation, false light, and counterfeit “sacred partnerships”
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Discern between waiting and preparing
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Walk away from what is misaligned without guilt or self-betrayal
During this journey, you will become a woman who:
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Walks in devotion and clarity, no longer mirroring what is wounded
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Protects what is right, even when it is inconvenient
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Stops pouring energy into situationships, fantasy, or breadcrumbs
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Is available to leadership in men because she herself is ordered and devoted
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Builds love with integrity — without shape-shifting, chasing, or self-sacrifice
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Becomes a safe place for love to land, not by lowering standards, but by living them
Inside The Architecture...
 The Inner Union
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This module establishes the foundation of the entire Architecture of Union. Before love can be lived outwardly, it must be restored inwardly. Here, you begin by returning to your inner ground, learning how your nervous system, inner masculine, inner feminine, and sense of self have been shaped by early relationships, expectations, and survival patterns. Rather than “fixing” yourself, you begin to experience what inner coherence actually feels like.
This is where the fog starts to lift, and where love begins to feel possible without force.
In this module, you will explore:
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The beginning of inner union and how fragmentation forms in the first place
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How your inner masculine and feminine relate, protect, or override one another
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Practices that soften internal conflict and restore inner trust
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How clarity emerges when your inner world is no longer at war with itself
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The felt sense of safety that allows truth, emotion, and desire to coexist
The Masculine & Feminine
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This module works directly with the relational imprints that shape how you experience love, authority, safety, and devotion. Rather than staying in analysis, you are guided into embodied repair, meeting the masculine and feminine both within you and beyond you in a new way. This is where inherited patterns loosen, and where projection begins to dissolve.
As these wounds heal, your capacity to relate without bracing or collapsing grows.
In this module, you will explore:
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How the father and mother wounds shape attraction, trust, and self-expression
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The difference between mature and wounded masculine and feminine dynamics
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Embodied practices to repair internalized authority, care, and protection
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How early relational patterns get replayed in adult intimacy
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What it feels like to be internally supported rather than self-abandoning
 Walking With God
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This module reorients your relationship with God away from performance and toward lived intimacy. Rather than using spirituality to bypass emotion or avoid truth, you learn how devotion becomes stabilizing, grounding, and deeply relational. God becomes a place of rest and guidance rather than pressure or ideal.
This work invites women who are curious, devoted, or returning, without requiring perfection or pre-existing certainty.
In this module, you will explore:
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Devotional surrender as an embodied posture rather than a mental concept
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How God relates to your feminine and masculine nature
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Practices for letting divine guidance move through your body and choices
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Releasing spiritual self-pressure while deepening reverence
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Becoming a vessel for truth, discernment, and right action
 Opening to Deep Love and Surrender
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This module brings inner healing into lived relationship. You learn how to stay open without self-betrayal, how to recognize self-sabotage, and how to respond rather than react when love feels challenging. This is where discernment, devotion, and emotional maturity begin to shape how you relate, with men, with God, and with life itself.
In this module, you will explore:
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What to do when frustration, distance, or disconnection arises
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How to identify subtle self-sabotaging patterns in love
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Expressing needs as an offering rather than a demand
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The difference between surrender and collapse
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Opening to love without losing your center
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Conscious endings and how to meet moments of separation or transition
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Letting go of power struggles while maintaining integrity
The Art of Your Expression
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This module restores your relationship with expression, desire, and creative life force. Rather than suppressing or over-identifying with emotion, you learn how expression becomes regulated, truthful, and nourishing. Your body becomes a place of listening and movement rather than control.
In this module, you will explore:
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The sacral center and its relationship to creativity and truth
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How resistance forms around expression, and how to meet it gently
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Practices that allow emotion to move without overwhelming you
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Reclaiming pleasure, curiosity, and creative impulse as life-giving
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Expression as devotion rather than performance
 Refining Your EssenceÂ
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This module is a turning point in the Architecture of Union. Here, the parts of you that were once darkened, shamed, or misunderstood are not indulged or exiled, they are reworked and restored to their original design in truth and love. The feminine depths that once carried intensity, anger, grief, or silence are reclaimed as holy, ordered, and truth-bearing.
This is where discernment matures. You learn how truth moves through a feminine body without force, collapse, or performance, and how alignment with God becomes clarifying rather than constricting. What was once bound is released, not through rebellion, but through remembrance.
In this module, you will explore:
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Reworking shadowed or exiled aspects of the feminine back into wholeness
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Understanding “dark” expression as sacred, ordered, and purposeful
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Receiving the sword of truth, discernment without aggression or fear
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Unlocking the deeper wisdom of your inner feminine voice
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Speaking and seeing truth from embodiment rather than reaction
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Remembering your original design and your place in cooperation with God
Evoking Eros
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This module restores eros to its rightful place, not as performance, fantasy, or strategy, but as holy life force moving through a regulated, trusting body. Here, pleasure is reclaimed as intelligence. Desire is no longer something to suppress, manipulate, or chase, it becomes a compass that reveals truth, aliveness, and direction.
Eros is redefined as passionate presence, intimacy, and creative energy that flows when the body is safe and integrated. This is where the Lover texture matures, and where sensuality becomes devotional rather than draining.
In this module, you will explore:
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Restoring true pleasure pathways and embodied intimacy
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Redefining erotic energy as consecrated, passionate eros
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Reclaiming the Lover texture as a source of vitality and truth
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The Queen archetype and her role in co-creation and stewardship
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Restoring trust in your body and its signals
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Integrating emotion, sensation, and desire into daily life
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Releasing stored trauma to reopen pathways for expression
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Clarifying true desires in their holy, life-giving design
Regaining Authentic Love and Connection
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This final module is not an ending, it is a commissioning. Here, the inner work becomes lived reality. You learn how to carry your restored architecture forward into life, relationship, and devotion without slipping back into old dynamics. Love becomes something you live from, not work toward.
This module focuses on resilience, maturity, and movement, choosing progress over pattern, presence over drama, and truth over familiarity. You step forward as a woman who no longer relates from survival, but from authenticity and grounded connection.
In this module, you will explore:
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Integrating the inner work into daily life and relationship
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Building resilience for real life, not ideal conditions
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Opting out of drama cycles and codependent dynamics
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Loving maturely without losing tenderness or truth
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Understanding triggers and defensiveness without shame
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Releasing old relational habits and protection strategies
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Returning to authentic connection rooted in presence and choice
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Moving forward as the woman you have become, alive, ordered, and whole
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Lifetime access to all eight modules of The Architecture of Union
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Embodied teachings, guided practices, and integrative transmissions
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Psychological, relational, and spiritual formation designed to restore inner order
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Access to all current and future updates within the program
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A complete pathway for returning to union with yourself, with love, and with God